Melissa Nicole

Our Wedding Video

2011-08-09T17:23:00.000-07:00

March 5th, 2011 was a day filled with love, joy, laughter, excitement and FUN! March 5th was the day I married my best friend and lover! March 5th- OUR wedding day, is perfectly captured in this video. ENJOY!

Ryan & Melissa from David Karger on Vimeo.

Dave Karger and crew of Atlanta Cinematic filmed our wedding weekend and created a flawless film that will forever be cherished!

p.s.
New blog posts coming soon! Starting with all wedding details! :) About time right?

Wedding Update

2011-01-19T06:34:00.000-08:00

Just pretend I have blogged everyday for the past 4 months okay? haaaa I know I have been awful but I'm busy and the time that I have to blog (at night after work) I just want to CHILL and read your blogs! ;)

Here is a complete update dedicated to our big day!

-Our reception site has been moved! We were having it at the Winder Community Center but we are now having it at the Payne Corley House in Duluth! My cousin Tiffany is the head chef there and came to me with the brilliant idea! Tiff was going to cater our wedding at the Winder Comm Center but came to me with the idea of moving the reception site just 5 months for the wedding. As stressful as this decision was (money wise) it has honestly been the BEST decision EVER!!!!! Tiffany and the Payne Corley House are bending over backwards to make sure we have a fairytale wedding!
Let me tell you why we made this decision- at the WCC we were going to have to rent EVERYTHING! Everything from linens, extra stove, serving ware, centerpieces etc. When it came to Tiffany cooking there, she was going to do whatever she need to do but the WCC does not have a full kitchen so feeding 250 people was going to be a challenge (but Tiff was ready to tackle it regardless!). Another downside to the WCC was that we were going to have to set up everything and take down everything on our own! There is no staff on board that handles that- just another thing to worry about!

At the Payne Corley House, everything is handled! Set up, clean up, vendors,food, EVERYTHING! I now have a wedding planner! With a wedding planner, I have gained SO MANY vendor hookups! A lot of our money that we had budgeted for cake, flowers, dj was literally cut in HALF bc Payne Corley has such awesome connections with their vendors! I would say 100% that a wedding planner is definitely worth the money just for that!!! Payne Corley is absolutely beautiful and totally the look I am going for! They have also been nominated "Best Of Gwinnett" several years in a row and they were The Knot's best of wedding pick for 2008/2009!

- My brooch bouquet is still in the works! I have received SO MANY beautiful brooches! Most of the brooches are from sweet family and friends, but some are also from friends of mine and Ry's family...how sweet is that!? I have made the stems for about 55 brooches and have about 30 more to do and then I will assemble it! (post on all of that to come!)

-We finally picked out out tux options!We went with Saavi Formal Wear and they were so helpful. Ryan looked so handsome. I cried when he tried on a tux jacket that was too big on him! Just the thought of seeing him at the end of the isle makes my heart flutter! He is going to look SO HOT!

- I also picked out the most adorable flower girl dresses EVER! Seriously-EVER! From the beginning I wanted the girls in white leotards and tutus. While looking for the perfect tutu on Etsy, I found a vendor who makes adorable tutu dresses! They were shipped last week and I am obsessed! I had the girls try them on and they look adorable!

-Honeymoon is booked but it's a surprise to me! I know we are headed to the Caribbean but that's it! Wherever we go, I know it will be special! Can't wait to soak up the quality time!

-This Sunday we have a food tasting at the Payne Corley House! I already know the food is going to be phenomenal because my cousin Tiff is amazing, but I am excited! While we are there we will also get to sample 2 different bakeries and pick which one will do our cake! whoop whoop!

-The next 3 weekends are jam packed with wedding festivities! This weekend I have a lingerie shower and the food tasting. The next weekend is my bachelorette weekend in Savannah and the first weekend in February is the bridesmaid luncheon and Ryan's bachelor trip to Vegas!

- Our rings are in the works of being designed! I have been without my engagement ring since Monday and I am still having mini freak outs when I don't see it! Our "ring guy" as Ryan and I call him, has my ring and is designing a band. He is also getting Ryan's ring too- I can't wait to see it! :)

-Our invitations have been sent out!!! Big thanks to Mama McIver for her help and to Katie for letting us use her new laser printer! I was thrilled with the outcome of our invites! I bought them at Michaels and we printed them at home! It was very tedious but a big money saver!

-I am still on the hunt for wedding shoes, my veil and earrings! I have my hair trial on February 5th, so finding a veil is my top priority until then! I have a couple that I love...hoping they work out!

-We had our first session of our premarital counseling not too long ago with our sweet Pastor. We are honored for him to do our wedding! Our session with him was intimate and thought provoking...it went great! We are meeting with him again soon and then one last time to finalize the ceremony.

- At this point in planning I am very stress free and just soaking it all up! Ryan and I have a to-do list and we are both knocking stuff out!

p.s.
I had a bunch of pics with this post but for some reason when I embedded them from Picasa, they didn't work! Ill try again later!

Save The Date Video

2010-09-08T10:58:00.000-07:00

Now that we have sent out our Save The Date, I can finally post it on this blog! Chris and Katie Green get all the credit for this idea! They emailed Ryan and I a while back with the fabulous idea of shooting a Save The Date video instead of the normal cards, magnets, calendars etc. I immediately loved the idea and was ready to run with it!

After a couple of months, we finally picked a date to shoot and we were all ready to roll! Initially, Chris was going to shoot the video with his super awesome camera but instead, had a friend who is equally awesome do the filming. David Karger was our videographer for the day and he is amazing!

We filmed the video on what could have been one of the hottest days this summer! A lot of sweat, strategic planning, and smiles went into this day! Chris and Dave ventured to downtown Flowery Branch to scope out locations while Ryan and I perfected the signs used in the video. Chris and Dave found an abandoned cabinet warehouse that was perfect! It was rustic, full of character and had just enough light. We shot some of the video outside of the warehouse and some inside. It was hot as hades in that building...nothing but stiff air! Chris and Dave didn't let that bother them though, the sweat was pouring and they kept on filming and thinking creatively! Can't say enough great things about those boys!

We filmed most of the video in downtown Flowery Branch. We filmed at the railroad tracks, under a beautiful tree and on a corn field. The corn field was my favorite spot! This little old man owned the field and he was just precious! He allowed us to use his property and loved it! His only request was that we didn't "shuck any of the corn". ha! Oh and the beautiful frames you see in the corn field scene? Chris and Dave rented from a local antique store! :)

After we filmed at the corn field we went to Ryan and I's new neighborhood and filmed at the lake and pool! We got to the neighborhood right at sunset...it could not have been timed any better! It is special to me that we have our new hometown and neighborhood in this video! It is where our lives will officially start together! :)

The best part of this whole Save The Date weekend (aside from the outcome of the video) was spending time with The Green family! Chris, Katie, Bella and Farrah all spent the night on Friday and Saturday we got up, packed lunches and headed to the pool! It was so much fun!

Lastly- If you have ANY video needs, you need to contact Dave Karger of Atlanta Cinematic! He will fulfill all of your visions and beyond!In addition to his creative work he works fast! Our first look at the video was sent to us within a couple days! Check out his website, there you can find video posts of some of his other work!

Annnnd here is the video!

Ryan & Melissa from David Karger on Vimeo.

Moss Covered Letters

2010-09-07T17:23:00.000-07:00

DIY projects for the wedding are my favorite! It is a simple way to show your personal style throughout your day AND do it on the cheap! Since day one of this wedding planning, I knew I wanted letters to hang on the church doors! I looked online and found some pretty moss covered ones and figured I could totally make them!

I looked for several weeks online and in stores (Hobby Lobby and Michaels) for 24 inch letters and had no luck finding them...I was feeling let down! Of course I could find the small letters but no big ones! That soon changed though when my Aunt Liz told me she found the 24 inch letters at JoAnne's when she was doing a craft project for my cousins room!!! woo hoo!

This Monday, my Dad and I met my Memaw for lunch and then went to JoAnne's to pick up the letters and other craft supplies! I bought a M and R, spray adhesive and a bag of sheet moss. The project ended up being a lot simpler then I thought, but it was messy!!!

Here is how I made my moss covered letters:

All the supplies!

Best Stuff EVER!

First thing you need to do is trace the letter on the moss and then cut it out. I messed up on this part the first time...make sure to leave about an inch 1/2 outside of your traced letter so you can fold it over the back/sides.

Once you have traced and cut the moss, you spray the letter and place the moss on top and then start to form the moss to the letter.

After spraying the letter with adhesive and laying the moss down, you have to do a lot of rubbing and pushing to get the moss to lay right. My fingers got super sticky and were moss covered by the end! haha

After I had glued the moss down I realized that it wasn't holding as well with the paper. So..make sure you remove ALL the paper from underneath the moss sheets!

And here is the Finished Product! I am so happy with how the M turned out!I'm sure the R will look even better since I now know what I am doing.

I'm planning on adding ribbon to the back to hang them! :) I can't wait to make the R!!! P.S. this project cost me around $30 (after coupons)...I found some moss covered letters for sell on Etsy for $150!!!!! whoa!

A Special Day

2010-09-01T18:34:00.000-07:00

Last Friday, I had a very fun, special day with my (soon-to-be) nieces! The little Green family was finalizing their big move, so I offered to help in any way I could. Katie said the best help would be to hang out with Bella for a little bit! I was so excited and couldn't get to Atlanta fast enough! Bella stole my heart the first time I met her and I will always love spending ANY time with her!

When I got to the house Bella said "we are going to the zoo!". After Katie packed Bella a lunch we were on our way! BUT sweet Farrah joined us too! Katie asked if I would mind bringing Farrah along too...are you kidding? Of course not!!! I soaked up every single minute of the day!

We walked from their house to the Zoo and I asked Bella all about her favorite animals. She is so smart and surprised me with how well she spoke! I know Bella has been to the Zoo a lot with her Mommy but the girl has memorized the entire Zoo! When we would walk up to a certain part she would shout the animals name before we even saw the animal! SO smart!

My favorite part of the day was walking with Farrah in one arm and holding Bella's hand with the other. It was a priceless moment! Another favorite was when I took Farrah out of the stroller when we were by the goats...I have never heard her squeal so loud! She was squealing and whaling her arms with excitement. It was so cute!

The most challenging part of our day? Getting the girls on the carousel. I thought I had convinced Bella we would all ride on the peacock (it was the bench seat on the carousel) because I thought it would be easiest with the girls- I could hold Farrah and sit by Bella. Bella had different plans once we got on...she wanted to sit on the Monkey! The monkey was raised so high, so I juggled holding onto Farrah with one arm while literally pulling/lifting Bella on the monkey! It was challenging but worth it to see her sweet face smile!

My love tank was over-flowing at the end of our zoo trip! We walked around the entire park, rode the train, played on the playground and rode the carousel- all while I stole kisses and hugs!

I love these girls so much!!! Thank you Katie and Chris for trusting me to hang with them for a few hours!

2010-08-25T18:33:00.000-07:00

The only thing that is getting me through my job hunt and wedding planning is great music. I've created a GrooveShark account and love it! One of my favorite songs to play is Electric Feel by MGMT. This song makes me want to jump up and down on my bed and brings me back to every fun memory I have with Ryan. Try not to jump on your bed while listening to this song...here are a few pics to enjoy too!

Bonnaroo 2009- such a fun trip!

New Years 2009

Park walking with Lola

Date night in Atlanta

Christmas 2009 at 37 Ranch with the Gouge Clan!

UGA vs Tech game

4th of July fun with The Shirah's

Brave game!

Oh you know, just hanging out with Sugarland!

1 year Anniversary

Gooooo Dawgs!

After catching the garter and bouquet at Ashley & Dustin's wedding!

Another wedding! We are going to have some curly headed babies! ;)

My biggest cheerleader during the Breast Cancer 3-Day walk!

Sledge Wedding! Such a fun night

Engagement night! Best suprise of my life!!!

Cape San Blas- McIver family trip

Easter

Camping trip at Amicalola Falls

Birthday dinner for Ryan!

Nevada

First Christmas together

The Shirah wedding...the night sparks started! :)

Brooch Bouquet

2010-08-11T20:10:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite wedding blogs to follow is The Wedding Chicks the entire site is full of breathtaking weddings, DIY tutorials and fabulous vendors! It is MAJOR eye candy! My all time favorite post was one that I saw of a brooch bouquet . After reading the post I went online and did some digging to find out more about these bouquets. At first, I had the crazy idea of purchasing one but soon that idea was crushed when I saw the price tag! Then I decided well, I could possibly have a florist make one once I find all the brooches. But THEN I decided heck, I am crafty...I could SO make this on my own! With a little time on the internet I found a wonderful tutorial of how to make them and decided I can do this!

The hunt for beautiful and fabulous brooches is on! My Mom and I found 4 at the same thrift store I bought the chair.Mrs. McIver found 2 really pretty flower brooches and Eden ( Keegan's girl-friend) had 4 brooches at the vintage store she works at. All of them are so pretty and I am obsessed with this idea!

Not only do I want to buy brooches but I also would love to have some brooches passed down from family members. So far, my Grandmother and Aunt's are all on board! Both of my Grandmothers have some they are going to give to me and my Aunt's both have some that used to belong to my Great Grandmothers! What a perfect way to incorporate my "something old"!! I also asked Ryan to find a special brooch or charm for me to add to the bouquet...immediately he said he already had something in mind! He has a #5 gold charm that he wore on a necklace when he was younger that he wants me to use. It is perfect because 5 is both of our favorite numbers AND we will be getting married on the 5th of March! Perfect!

In the tutorial I read, it says that you will need between 50-70 brooches depending on how large you want to make it. That is a lot and is going to be SO heavy but this is something that I will be able to keep for a lifetime! Each brooch will have a story and I can't wait to see how it turns out! Since I have 12 bridesmaids it will be pretty impossible to make each girl one so, to keep the brooch theme going, I am going to pin one brooch on the stem of each girls bouquet.

Below are the brooches I have so far...

These are the ones that my Mom and I found at a thrift store in Buford.

These are the 2 that my sweet soon to be Mother-In-Law found. LOVE these!

These are the ones Eden had at her work. I bought all 4 from her except the 2 on the outside on the top row (those were sold out before she could get to them :( )

I'm Bacccckkkkkk

2010-08-11T18:56:00.000-07:00

It's been a while and I blame it solely on summer camp...it wore my butt out!!! I was worthless everyday after work but now... camp is over and I actually feel rested.

Since my last post, a lot has gone on!

Ryan and I closed on our house and Ryan is completely moved in! We have bought living room furniture, the master bedroom is almost completely finished and we bought a kitchen table. Our empty house is slowly looking more like a home! On the weekends, we spend most of our time running errands for the house and cooking delicious meals in our fabulous kitchen! These fun weekends give me so much to look froward to when I finally move in!

**excuse the mess in the background...this was right after the furniture was delivered and the last of Ryan's stuff was unpacked!**

Some of our weekend time has also been devoted to decorating the house and figuring out ways to fill our empty house with furniture on the cheap!We got our kitchen table for less than half the price at American Signature during their 4th of July sale and we scored our 5 piece living room set at Rooms to Go for a killer deal as well! Ryan and I are also getting crafty with some stuff we already have...paint is our friend!

Our first project was to refinish his old dressers from college. I have a sleigh bed that we put in the master bedroom but I never bought dressers, side tables etc. to match it. Until we can save up to do that, we are using his refinished dressers in the master! It's amazing what paint and new hardware can do! I really wish I would have taken before pictures because they look SO much different!When people see them for the first time, they ask "are those new?"...if I wouldn't have known better, I would have thought they were new too! Go us! :)

Since we refinished the dressers, I have had an itch to get creative again! Nothing frees my mind more then painting something or doing something crafty. While I was at a thrift store looking for brooches (see next post!) I came across a chair that had too much potential to pass up! When I saw it, I knew it would be my next creative task! That same day I bought more paint and some fabric so I could refinish it. I have never refinished a chair so it was fun! Once I got started, I realized that it was quite simple! All I needed was paint, fabric and staple gun! Easy breezy and it ended up looking a lot better then I expected it to! It looks great in the master bedroom!

Being creative is fun and having our own house to do it in is great!

23 Days

2010-05-04T11:13:00.000-07:00

23 Days until Ryan & I close on our first home! We are beyond excited and I literally giggle with excitement every time I think about it!

Since this is a new build, Ryan and I have been able to see the entire process of our home. It is has been exciting to visit every weekend and see what all has been done! This past weekend, we went to see the house with Ryan's parents, sister Katie, bro-in-law Chris and their girls. When we pulled up the landscape was completed and it made the house look so much different! I love the placement of the islands and I LOVE the flowers they picked. They had also installed the wood floors downstairs, granite counter tops were installed in the kitchen, all hardware in the bathrooms was installed, shelving in the closets were in and the final paint coat was done! They had accomplished A LOT! Pretty much all that is left to do, is put in carpet upstairs, install columns on front porch of house, install stove in kitchen (all other appliances are in), put in door handles, replace a broken window, touch up paint on the outside, a little trim work, paint the hand rail leading upstairs and install window seating in the loft area upstairs! Ahhh I am so excited!!!

Every single night I dream of how we will decorate our home, all the family functions we will have at our home and most importantly, the family we will grow to be at OUR home! Ryan will be moving into the house in June after his CFA Level 2 test and I will move in once we are married. Hopefully once I move in, our home will be mostly decorated. I can't wait to work on the house on the weekends with Ryan and add our personal touches! Isn't that the best part of having a home (besides watching little baby feet run all around it...once that happens)? Decorating to represent you and your loved ones?

Our Home :)The front still needs paint touched up around upper window and columns to be installed on porch.

Left side of house. Love the island!

Right side of house.

Right side of house.

Pretty flowers!

Dining room. This chandelier matches a larger one that will hang in the entry way.

Pretty gas fireplace! I can have a fire with a flip of a switch! ha

Standing in foyer here. You can kind of see the banister for the loft area. We forgot to get a picture of that!

This is an awful pic of me but I had to include it because my sweet flower-girl, Bella is in it! She is trying to give me bunny ears!

Downstairs half-bath.

Kitchen! My favorite space...I LOVE to cook!

Kitchen

Kitchen

View of the backyard from the living room.I love our back yard...it is very private! This hill backs up to a county maintained dirt rd. No one behind us! And at the top of the hill we have some property that is flat...Ryan plans to put a horse shoe pit up there

Laundry room. Can I get an AMEN for this counter top space? Perfect for Ryan to fold all the laundry! HAHA

So there is a mini tour of our house. This weekend I will get some better pictures (these were taken on our iPhones) with my camera.

Ikat Love

2010-04-08T19:10:00.000-07:00

I am in love with ikat fabric! Ikat is so colorful,different and fun! Right now, I am on the hunt to find some reasonably priced ikat fabric in any color!Ryan bought me a beautiful duvet set from West Elm for Christmas and since it is so simple, I have wanted to add some color to it and I think an ikat print will be perfect! When I find the fabric I love, I will make curtains and accent pillows with it! See below for some of my favorites ikat prints...

**pictures above are from LaDesignConcepts.com and ecosalon.com**

So Yummy!

2010-04-01T12:15:00.000-07:00

(excuse the photo quality...taken with the trusty iPhone!)

Last week, I was craving O'Charley's Loaded Potato Soup. I don't eat there often, but when I do, I usually get a cup of loaded potato soup and it is always so delicious! I decided instead of driving to get some, I would try to find a similar recipe online. I found the PERFECT recipe! I changed some of the ingredients and added a couple things and it turned out perfect. I actually thought it was BETTER than O'Charley's...I know that is bias but I had 3 grown men tell me that too. I know the weather is finally warming up here in GA so you don't really want soup but I find this to be such a comfort food. I served the soup with grilled chicken and it was a great mix!

Loaded Potato Soup

* 3 lbs red potatoes
* 1/4 cup butter
* 1/4 cup flour
* 4 cups half-and-half
* 3 cups milk ( I used 2%)

* 1 (16 ounce) package Velveeta cheese, melted
* white pepper (black works fine too..I just happen to have white)
* garlic powder
* 1 teaspoon hot pepper sauce
* 1 package of Hormel Real Crumble Bacon (or you can fry some up but this was easier!)
* 1 cup cheddar cheese, shredded
* 1/2 cup fresh chives, chopped

Directions

1. Dice unpeeled red potatoes into 1/2 inch cubes.
2. Place in large saucepan; cover with water and bring to a boil.
3. Let boil for 10 minutes or until 3/4 cooked.
4. In a separate pan, combine melted margarine and flour, mixing until smooth.
5. Place over low heat and gradually add half-and-half and milk, stirring constantly.
6. Continue to stir until smooth and liquid begins to thicken (if it doesn't get super thick, don't worry...it will when you add to potatoes).
7. Add melted Velveeta.
8. Stir well.
9. Drain potatoes and add to cream mixture.
10. Stir in pepper, garlic powder and hot pepper sauce (add to taste...I added some, taste tested and then added more).
11. Add entire package of bacon (if you want, you can save some to throw up top once the soup is finished) and 1 cup of sharp cheddar cheese (add more if you want).
11. Cover and cook over low heat for 30 minutes, stirring occasionally.
12. Place soup into individual serving bowls and top with crumbled bacon, shredded cheese and chives.

As you can see, this soup will feed an army! It fed 3 of us, plus I had enough left overs to send home with my brother, Ryan, AND my grandmother! I also froze some and can't wait to eat it again!

Reception Site

2010-03-22T17:43:00.000-07:00

The quest for a reception site started about a month ago. The only requirements were that we needed to be able to bring in our own caterer and beverages. After a few weeks of online hunting; my Mom, Mrs. McIver and I went to check a couple places out. First we looked at the Gwinnett Historic Courthouse but it was way to small for the amount of people (275) we are inviting to the wedding. Then we looked at the Winder Community Center...this was a place that Mrs.McIver suggested. Before we went I had looked it up online to view pictures and there were not many on the site but the ones that were posted, did not serve this place any justice! I decided to check it out anyways because Mrs.McIver talked about how pretty is was when she once went to a wedding there.

When we got there we pulled up to a building that looks somewhat like a gym building but with brick on the outside. The outside does NOTHING for the inside. We walked in and I was amazed...it was like we had walked into a totally different place! Below are some pictures of what we found inside! :)

This is the view when you walk through the front doors. It is a HUGE "hallway" that is beautifully decorated. The floors throughout the community center are hardwoods and I love that!

Picture with the bright lights on. I like the way the "hallway" is extended to the ballroom area by using the 3 banisters on each side.

This is the right side of the ballroom. The space in the middle of the banisters will be left open for a dance floor! I love how big the space is and that the hall way flows right into it!

Left side of the ballroom.

Middle of the ballroom. The main space for the dance floor!!! There is a stage against the wall for the DJ to set up on!

View of the hallway facing the entrance doors.

This is a room off of the entrance hallway. It is huge! It can divide into 2 rooms as well. This room will hold the food. I like this space because there are 2 doors so it will make the flow of the food-line be great!

Here is a picture with some tables and chair set up and the bright lights turned off. Another great thing about this place is there is unlimited chair and table usage! I will just have to find a vendor to use for table linens and chair covers.

The Winder Community Center also has a kitchen area with an industrial size food warmer, refrigerator, microwave, prep tables, etc. It is great!

I went last week and made the down-payment for the space and am sooo pumped! I have already started envisioning what this place will look like! :) Oh and did I mention how AWESOME the price is??? it is only $113 per hour. There are a few separate fees for alcohol. But you CAN NOT beat $113 an hour!

catch up

2010-03-02T18:42:00.000-08:00

I have been an absolute horrible blogger since the beginning BUT I am making a promise to change! I promise I will blog at least once a week. I have so many wedding ideas and things going on that I would really love to document! I know if I don't document everything I will regret it once our wedding has come and gone.

To catch you up...
- I went to my first bridal show with my Mom and it was great. I found some vendors I liked and pretty much fell in love with a possible tux & tie option for the guys. Next time I go, I am bringing stickers with my info on it...I have NEVER written my name, address, email etc. so many time in my life! AND I will create another email address specifically for wedding junk...my email is overloaded with vendors! ahh

- In February, Ryan and I went to Las Vegas and Brian Head, Utah with our best friends, Jessica & Chris Shirah. We stayed at my Aunt & Uncles house in Vegas and condo in Utah and had a great time!!! We saw the Blue Man group in Vegas, hit up The Forum shops and all the casinos in Vegas. And Snowboarded in Utah! So FUN!

- On my birthday, February 20, mine and Ryan's parents hosted an engagement party at my Mom's house. It was so special to us to have all of our family and friends celebrate with us! It was a very fun and exciting night! Definitely felt the love that night!

- Ryan & I picked our wedding date...MARCH 5, 2011!!!! I am so excited!!!

- I finally know my wedding budget so I can officially get down to business!

- We are still looking for reception sites around Lawrenceville that will allow us to bring in our own caterer and beverages...know of any places? We are going to look at the Gwinnett Historic Court House and the Winder Center. Here is the kicker...the site needs to hold about 250 people.

- Since our trip I have not worked out once and started eating poorly again! I feel so gross. I have got to gain control again...I was feeling SO much better about myself when I was eating right and exercising! My skin looked better, I was loosing weight ( 5 lbs to be exact), had more energy and was only having like 1 headache a week! SIZE 6 SIZE 6 SIZE 6! This blog gave me SO much motivation to get back on track...AND I want to join weight watchers. http://msbitchcakes.blogspot.com/

That is all I can think of for now but I promise... at least one post a week! :)

Bridesmaids and Flower Girls

2010-02-08T12:35:00.000-08:00

Last week I sent 14 very special girls a very important piece of mail! I mailed them out on Tuesday and slowly started to receive texts, tweets and phone calls saying YES the rest of the week. Ryan and I are having a large bridal party and I am so excited! Both of our bridesmaids and groomsmen are a good blend of family and best friends. It was very easy for me to choose my girls and equally easy for Ryan to choose his. Each of my bridesmaids are very special to me in their own little way. I can't wait to add more memories with each of the girls!Below are the photo cards that I sent to each girl. In no particular order...here are my Bridesmaids!

Anna is my cousin (more like sister) and the most positive, energetic person I know. She is one big ball of fun and has so much love for everyone around her. Anna and I have gone from matching outfits, homemade videos, and silly fights to hearts-to-hearts, giggles, and a true appreciation and love for each other. Anna will be my Maid Of Honor

Natalie is my best friend of 13 years. We became friends on the playground in Elementary school doing cheerleading stunts and cheers. Today she is my biggest cheerleader and daily chat partner. Natalie will be my Matron Of Honor

Jessica is my best friend of 11 years and also mine and Ryan's match-maker! Jessica and her husband (re)introduced Ryan & I at their wedding and told us "we would be perfect together". Jessica will be my other Matron Of Honor

Ashley is my best friend of 13 years. She took me under her wing when I moved into her neighborhood in the 4th grade. We made many fun memories over the years...we went from neighbors in grade school to college roommates. Ashley will be one of my Bridesmaids

Jessica is my sister from another mother! We were best friends in our Mommy's tummies and still are to this day. Jessica will be one of my Bridesmaids

Amber is the older sister I wish I always had! I have always looked up to Amber and tried so hard to be like her growing up! I recently got to share the experience of being in her wedding and now it's her turn! Amber will be one of my Bridesmaids

McKenzie is my sassy, sweet, beautiful, smart, step-sister. I love her so much and can't wait to see her grow up before my eyes. McKenzie will be one of my Bridesmaids

Chelsie is Ryan's youngest sister and now, my sweet friend! Chelsie is so much fun to be around and always has a fun story to tell! We have shared many laughs and many hearts to hearts already....I can't wait to share many more! I can't wait to call her my sister-in-law. Chelsie will be one of my Bridesmaids

Katie is Ryan's oldest sister and someone I truly look up to! Katie is one of the sweetest people I know and has always made me feel so welcomed in the McIver family! Katie is also the best Mommy and wife in the world...I hope I am half of the wife and Mom that she is! I can't wait to call her my sister-in-law! Katie will be one of my Bridesmaids

Taylor is a precious friend that I gained while I lived in Athens. We worked together, lived in the same neighborhood and shared so many great memories at those places. Taylor has a passion for music that is so contagious and I love discovering new artists with her. Taylor will be one of my Bridesmaids

Brittney is another precious friend that I met in Athens. Brittney & I lived just 3 houses down from each other in Athens and from the moment we moved in I was so excited! Brittney moved to Valdosta from Athens and it was a very sad day for me! I felt like I was loosing a little piece of me! Brittney will be on of my Bridesmaids

Heather and I have been close friends for 13 years! We grew up in the same neighborhood and were college roommates for a short time. Heather is a wonderful Mom, good friend, and a fun- loving friend! She is also my favorite dance partner! Heather will be my Bridesmaid

Ryan and I decided to send photo cards to our flower girls too! We are going to have the most precious flower girls around! I can't wait to see the girls all dolled up!

Bella is Ryan's niece and will be one of our flower girls! She is SO much fun!

Farrah is Ryan's other niece and will be our second flower girl. This little bundle is such a sweet girl already! I can't wait to see her personality blossom in the next year!

I have a couple friends who are not in the bridal party but I would like to involve in the wedding somehow. Both of these girls ( TJ and Megan ) are special friends and I would like to honor them in some way. Any ideas?

Size 6, Yes Please!

2010-01-23T14:07:00.000-08:00

I have decided that I WILL NOT try on ANY wedding dresses until I am back in a size 6! I am at the highest weight of my life and a size 10 fits me comfortably. I really can't believe I am putting this out there for all of you to read but if I do it, maybe it will be a wake up call!

Not only do I want to loose weight for the sake of my wedding and obtaining hottest honeymoon body for my fiance... I want to do it for my health. Right now if I run up a flight of stairs or run at all for goodness sake, I am out of breath and my heart rate is pumping high. That is not okay. I used to be super fit and could do more push-ups then my brother! Obviously I let it all slip away. I know, I know I will never be a size 2 like I was in high school but I can definitely be a size 6! Every time I slip those size 8 pants on and they are a little too snug, I take them right back off to put on my size 10's then I shake my head ( or my belly) in disgust.

I make awful decisions when I eat. Instead of the grilled chicken sandwich I get the fried, instead of fruit I get fries. I eat WAY too much spaghetti and of course have to have the garlic bread to go with it. I munch on chips for a snack. And I drink sweet tea like there won't be a gallon in the fridge the next day. ugh I am so sick of feeling gross and I know if I change my eating habits and exercise I will feel like a million bucks! Starting Monday ( FOR REAL) things are going to change!

I am starting the 30 Day Shred with Missy on Monday at 4:00. We are going to do it everyday together. I can't wait to do this with someone who is as passionate about loosing weight like I am! I am going to make better decisions when I eat and I am going to work-out at least 30 mins. a day.

I will keep you posted on progress. I am not too much worried about how much I weigh but more worried about the inches lost and toning up. I am NOT going to tell you how much I weigh but I will till you if I loose some pounds! I am not going to say I want to weigh a certain amount bc I feel like it will be much easier to set a goal by my pant size. I was super satisfied when I was a size 6!

Here I am at a size 6 and I am hoping to look like this really soon!

Size 6...ready GO!!! And if you inches could fall off fast...that'd be great! I am so anxious to try on wedding dresses!!! :)

Wedding Inspiration

2010-01-07T18:07:00.000-08:00

INSPIRATION:

If you know me, then you know I am absolutely obsessed with wedding shows, blogs, magazines etc. I seriously can't get enough and this obsession started LONG before I was engaged. Don't you worry...Ryan was fully aware, he has spent multiple hours watching my wedding shows! haha Since I have had this obsession I started to save pictures of things that I love in a folder titled "INSPIRATION" on my computer. A lot of these things I still really like and some are DIY projects. Here are a few things from my folder that I LOVE..

I love this idea of using branches as center pieces...what a simple, elegant, cheap idea! I have seen another site where they made the flowers out of fabric. I also like the idea of hanging small crystals from the branches. This would definitely be a DIY project.
I want white table linens but I would like to buy my own black and white damask fabric and make table runners out of it. AND with buying my own fabric I can reuse it for other events such as thanksgiving or Christmas dinner that would possibly be at our house one day! :) Or I could make pillows, curtains etc...oh the possibilities!
I am really digging the netted veil...I'm sure it has a name but I don't know what they are called. A traditional long veil is not really my style but then again I could try something like this on and hate it. BUT right now I LOVE IT!

This is by far my favorite picture that is in my INSPIRATION folder. When I saw this picture I knew that I HAD to do something similar to it ( the LOVE sign). I'm not sure how I would pull this off but I'm sure my crafty, soon to be mother-in-law, Mrs. McIver could ramble off some ideas...she is super crafty!

WHAT I DO KNOW:

-I have pretty much decided that my bridesmaids will wear gray dresses and each girl will wear a different color, chunky, fun necklace. I do not want to limit my colors to just a few, so with gray dresses and different color necklaces...I can have a larger color pallet. Oh and the grooms mens ties would coordinate with the girls necklaces.

-I also know that I want a very simple dress. I do not want a lot of beading and sequence. I really like ruffles, sweet heart tops, bows...when you read those 3 together it probably sounds tacky but I promise it's not! haha Just think JCrew...I have found a few wedding dresses I love on their website. And of course I have found several in wedding magazine. I can't wait to actually try one on!

WHAT WE DON'T KNOW:

Our wedding date. We have picked a couple months but no dates. I still have to discuss a budget with my parents and get a guest list from each of our parents and compile ours, THEN we will pick our date for sure.

The Proposal- December 25, 2009

2009-12-28T10:34:00.000-08:00

The Proposal Story: The McIver's were hosting a dinner on Christmas night at their house. Ryan's entire family was there and also invited my Dad, brother, and Memaw. I made patio rice and oreo balls and was ready to chow down with sweet family and friends. Little did I know, there was another side to this story...

As we (Ryan, my brother & I) were traveling down the road to The McIver's, Ryan sent his Mom a text telling her we were on our way. Mrs. McIver replied back with "Can u stall? :) Not quite ready. You know your Mom :) Love you & Merry Christmas"...Ryan turned to me after he got the text and said "I'm going to kill her"...I said "why?" and he showed me the text. We were already half way there and had about 20 minutes until dinner.

Once we approached downtown Lawrenceville, Ryan says "let's stop and take a picture at the tree...we can kill a few minutes". The 3 of us pile out of the car and I looked at the boys and said "I have a feeling yall are up to something!". We walk over to the tree and start posing for pictures...my bro was the photographer.

Second picture: Ryan says "let me get on the other side" I thought he was just getting on that side because he knows the left is my "good side". haha
Look at his sweet nervous face and blotchy neck.

Third picture: Ryan kisses me. Still a blotchy neck...bless his heart!

Fourth picture: He takes his knee and my eyes fill with tears then I start saying " oh my God, are you serious?" And he asks " Will you marry me?" ....

Fifth picture: Then I jumped on him and hugged him. He said, "so, will you?" and I said "YES!". Ryan was still holding the ring and I had yet to even look at when he says "well do you wan"t to see it?" and I said " yeah, let me see it!"...

Sixth picture: Ryan slips the beauty on my finger and we hug for a while.

After we hug and kiss, I am standing there in shock and then Ryan's entire family, my Dad, brother and Memaw walk from behind a building. They got to witness the entire thing!!! My Mom & Step-Dad were out of town so they could not be there to witness but we will surely celebrate when they get home!

After we all celebrated by the tree we headed back to the McIver's for a delicious dinner! After a very sweet toast given by Ryan's Dad, Ryan and his Mom, we enjoyed dinner. We had grilled chicken with pineapple on top, patio rice, homemade macaroni & cheese, broccoli & cheese casserole, rolls, homemade cheesecake ( by Mrs. McIver) and oreo balls!

After dinner a few of our closet friends stopped by to celebrate too!

Christmas night was truly a magical one. I can't wait to see what the Lord has in store for Ryan & I. I will love you forever Ryan!!!

Also...A big thanks to the McIver's for hosting such a wonderful dinner. I can't wait to officially be part of "The Blonde Family"!

LET THE WEDDING PLANNING BEGIN!!! :)

Amelia Island

2009-12-22T17:41:00.000-08:00

The first week of December, Ryan & I went on vacation to Amelia Island on behalf of Wells Real Estate Funds ( Ryan's company). Each year Ryan's company hosts an amazing getaway for a week at the Ritz Carlton. I have had the pleasure of going the past 2 years. Every meal, guest speaker, activity and day is perfectly planned out. It is so relaxing and so much fun!

Last year I went to Amelia Island and came back head over heels in love with Ryan. We had only been exclusively dating for about 4 months before we went so I was still trying to impress him and make him like me as much as I liked him! ;) I must have done something right! ha

This year being in Amelia Island brought back a bunch of memories from the prior year. We spent a lot of quality time together and equally spent time with his work buddies. We played games, rode bikes, danced, relaxed, cuddled while watching movies and ate really good food! I enjoyed every single moment and fell in love with Ryan all over again.

Below are a few pictures from our trip this year!

The theme this year was "Under The Big Top". The first night at dinner they had clowns and people walking around on stilts. So fun!

They also had a juggling act at dinner the first night. These guys were on America's Got Talent and performed on Good Morning America.

They were so entertaining. They also spoke the message of team work. Obviously they are the experts!

We rode bikes with a group and had so much fun! Ryan and I have decided that we want to buy bikes and make that a new hobby.

We rode our bikes down to the ocean.

Group shot!

This is Billy...one of Ryan's work buddies. Him and his wife, Cassie are such a sweet couple. Love them!

After the bike ride we took advantage of the beautiful weather and played bocce ball.

I'm pretty sure Cassie and Billy won.

The dining hall was always perfectly decorated!

Courtney & I

Courtney & Ross. Ross works with Ryan. They are a fun couple who we enjoy hanging out with! Actually Courtney and I have a few of the same friends and both used to work at abercrombie! haha

My Love!

Don McLaughlin was a guest speaker one night. His message was incredible. Very moving and so inspiring!

Zoo themed night at dinner. Loved it!!!

Another view of the dining hall.

yummmy!

My favorite...the desserts! You could even eat the zebra frame!

Us with Cassie & Billy

The Ritz had these beautiful trees up throughout the entire hotel.

That night we went to the "late night lounge" and enjoyed a talent show and then learned how to do the "Staying Alive" dance.

ah ah ah ah staying alive, staying alive!

Once again, Amelia Island was amazing and such a perfect get-away! Thanks Ryan for having me as your guest! Love you more this year then last! :)

RYAN

2009-12-14T10:06:00.001-08:00

I absolutly love this sweet boy with my whole heart. There really isn't much else to say but that.
I'll leave you with one of my favorite pictures of him...

Such a stud.

Sweet Dreams Are Made Of These

2009-12-08T12:30:00.000-08:00

I have finally found the perfect duvet! I have been looking for a while now for something that I really love. Something I can easily change with a few throw pillows and wall art. Last week I recieved the West Elm catalog in the mail and to my suprise, found a duvet that I LOVE!!!

They offer this duvet in white, cream, sea grass, sea spray( gray-the color I like) and clay. I really like the white and cream colors too but I just know they will get dirty so quick! Above is the duvet in sea spray, the color I like. I can just picture it now and I am getting so excited! I have been looking on-line at etsy.com for some throw pillow and have found some cute ones!

Needless to say, this is on my Christmas list! :)

Thankful

2009-11-23T17:36:00.000-08:00

The ABC's of things I am Thankful for...

A-Airplanes: What a wonderful form of transportation. I mean really, you are FLYING in the air to another place. So cool and so thankful! Oh, and one day I hope to sky-dive out of a plane! :)
B-Brother: My Brother, Steven is one cool dude. I love him so much! I will forever cherish the times where we have "us" time, whether it be a short ride in the car jamming to our favorite music or playing ladder ball outside. Most of my favorite memories growing up include my little bro.
C-Communication: Communication has grown tremendously thanks to technology. Emails, texts, skype, phones, social networks etc. I am forever thankful for communication in every form. Thankful that I can send a sweet email to my out of town family or record a video and share it with friends via Facebook. Very thankful that I can pick up the phone and talk to my best friends and loved ones on a daily basis.
D-Dad : I am thankful for the precious relationship I have with my Dad. He is probably the funniest person I know. He will make a crappy day better...he just knows what to say or do. I love that my Dad is not just my Father but also my friend. I am thankful for the past 2 years where we have lived together...in this time we have grown so close and have created some of the best memories! Waffle House trips, America's Funniest Home Videos, yummy dinners, karaoke, GA football tailgating, grocery store trips and so many other little things.
E-Education: Thankful for the education I have been given thus far. And thankful for the fact that soon I will be continuing my education.
F-Friends: I have been blessed with some amazing friends. Some I have known since birth and some I have known for just 5 years. Those friends who have been there through every season of my life make me who I am today. I am forever grateful for the memories, the love, the stories and the support. I love my friends!
G-Grandparents: My grandparents love shows no end. All of them are so special to me in their own little ways. Life would be so boring without them!
H-Health: Thankful that I am healthy and able to get care if for some reason I am not healthy. So many people in this world aren't as fortunate.
I-Iphone: I am just slightly obsessed with this thing. Phone, Email, Facebook, Twitter, games, and whatever APP you want all wrapped into one little phone. LOVE IT! And I should probably throw in there that I am thankful I have not broke it!
J-Job: It may not be my dream job but with the unemployment rate and the economy, I am grateful that I have a job. My job provides for me. I can pay my bills, sleep soundly under a roof in a bed, buy food, save money etc.
K-Kids: Kids make the world a better place. They bring so much joy, laughter and love to any room. My favorite job I have had was when I worked at an after-school program for 150 kids. Everyday was an adventure and I never left unhappy. I can't wait to have my own kids someday!
L-Love: I have a love for so many things. The things I love bring so much happiness in my life and the people that love me do too! Love is powerful.
M-Mom: My Mom is beautiful. My Mom is my rock. My Mom is funny. My Mom is unconditional love. My Mom is a great cook. My Mom is my best friend. My Mom gives the best hugs. My Mom is so many other things but best of all she is MY Mom.
N- Nail Polish: I love fun and new nail polishes. With pretty nail polishes comes manicures and pedicures and those are my favorite treat! My favorite nail polish color is by OPI called "Lincoln park after dark"
O-Our Home: Thank God I have a roof over my head and bed to lay my head.
P-Prayer: The power of prayer is amazing. God is good.
Q-Quiet Time: Love it and need to do it more often.
R-Ryan: There is so much to be thankful for when I think about Ryan. He has brought so much happiness to my life. I thank God for him everyday. His sweet blue eyes and curly blonde hair are just a couple of MANY things I am thankful for. The thing I am most thankful for is his love for me. He loves me like no other ever has and he is not afraid to show it. I hope to grow old with Ryan and watch our love grow.
S-: Step-Dad, Bro & Sis: I'm thankful that Doug make my Mom happy and loves her unconditionally. I'm thankful for my sweet, little step- bro & sis, Conner and McKenzie. They are so much fun!
T-Technology: Laptops, Iphones, security cameras, DVR's, digital cameras, TV's etc...I am thankful for it all!
U-Uggs: The most comfortable boots in the world. I was so thankful to have some after I finished the 3-Day walk. They were heaven to my feet!
V-Vacations: 2 days away or a week is always nice. I'm headed to Amelia Island with Ryan's company in just 7 days and I am so thankful for this vacation! Every meal is provided and delicious, great speakers, fun activities, sweet people and the beach! :)
W-Water: CLEAN water. After reading some blogs of Compassion Bloggers and seeing how these children and their families do not have clean water it breaks my heart. Everyday I take a clean shower, brush my teeth with clean water, make sweet tea with clean water and everyday I take that for granite. Heck, when I go to the lake I SWIM in water cleaner then what some of those kids are drinking. Sometimes it's the little things that really are the most important and those things are so easily forgotten!
X- Xtra sweet tea: mm sweet tea! My favorite drink
Y-Yummy Food: I am thankful for all the yummy food that will be eaten on Thanksgiving day. My Memaw's always work so hard to make the best food....and it always is the best! mmm I can't wait!
Z- ZzzzzzZzzz: SLEEP! Thankful for sleep in my comfy bed!

I hope everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving!!!

New Look

2009-11-20T13:23:00.000-08:00

I decided to change the look of my blog from warm colors to purples, whites and greys....I am really feeling those colors! So today I made a collage on Picnik and am now using it for my header but now I am getting frustrated because I can not figure out how to download a background image. I have a cute grey plaid background ( the same background that I use on my twitter profile) that I want to use but have NO idea how to get it to an HTML format. Anybody want to help a sista out??? It's driving me crazy!

Hope you all have a fabulous weekend!!!

MAC

2009-11-16T18:16:00.001-08:00

I decided not to use Bare Minerals. No, I did not try it but after I thought it about it...I don't do so well with loose powders. I had several powder based eye-shadows that are now all over my make up bag and always got all over my counter every time I used them. SO...I decided not to go with Bare Minerals for that sole reason...seems messy for me!

So, MAC it is. Weird huh? haha I mean all my other make-up is MAC. I went to the MAC counter and asked if they had any mineral make-up and they do! They have a whole line of mineral based make up! I looked at them all and asked my questions and decided to try the Mineralized Satinfinished SPF 15 Foundation. It is a liquid based mineral make up and so far I love it. The MAC lady gave me a sample of the make up and I have worn it 3 times now and REALLY like it! It's not too thick, just the right converage, has SPF and contains antioxicdants...everything I am looking for!
I decided to put this on my Christmas list since I still have a good amount of my Studio Stick foundation left. If you are looking for a new make up go by MAC and have them give you a sample of the Mineralized Satinfinshed Foundation!

Make-Up

2009-11-03T17:28:00.000-08:00

I'm looking for a change in my face make-up. Currently I use the products below but I am considering switching to a mineral make-up. When I wear make-up I like it to look very natural. I do not wear any eye shadow or liner but I LOVE mascara and lip gloss. I love the make-up I am using now on my face because it conceals good but it does not look cakey...I can't stand for my face make-up to look cakey or thick on my face! When I did pageant it used to bother me to have to cake on my make-up but you had to do it because of the stage lights! ANYWAYS... I am posting the make-up I wear now and I would love to hear what make-up you wear ( all 5 of you...Katie, Missy, Mrs.McIver, Racheal and Emily! haha) or what you suggest.
I love Clinique's Super Rescue moisturizer. It is awesome! Helps with aging too! :)

I use this Foundation Studio Stick from MAC. I like it because I can just wipe it on my face and rub it in with a foundation brush...it gives a very even and natural look.This is Perscriptives Trio Bronzer. I like this bronzer because you can use the lightest shade for highlighting or if you use all three it give a pretty color...not orange!

I use this make-up brush set from MAC. I got it last year during one of their specials. I use the 3rd brush as a foundation brush and it works great! It is also really easy to clean with soap and water.

MAC's Plush Lash mascara is my favorite! It make my eyelashes so full....pretty sure I will never use another mascara!
MAC's Tinted Lip Conditioner is another favorite. It has SPF 15 and just a hint of color.
And lastly, Stila's Lip Glaze in Peach. This lip gloss is very thick and stays on for a long time. Very pretty for a night out!

I think this weekend I may go by Bare Minerals and get a "makeover" to see if I like the make up. Do any of yall use mineral make-up?

Breast Cancer 3-Day Walk: DAY 3

2009-11-03T11:31:00.000-08:00

Day 3 started at 5:00 am. We woke up early because we had to pack our bags, take down our tent, bring our luggage to the trucks, eat breakfast and get ready for the walk! We were all up before the lights were on in the building! The last day is supposed to be the "best" day so I was really pumped! We loaded the buses and were dropped off in Chamblee.

Ready to grab some breakfast!

Breakfast line. Breakfast was my favorite meal offered by the 3-Day. They had eggs, bacon, sausage, hashbrowns, fruit, yogurt and cereal! I usually skipped breakfast but with a spread like that and 20 miles ahead of me, I never did.

Good Morning!!! Still dark outside but we are READY!

We enjoyed a beautiful sunrise as we waited in line to load the buses.

This is Jenne, the National Spokesperson for the Breast Cancer 3-Day. She was so much fun! Every morning she would be up dancing with us and each night she always delivered inspirational words to keep us going. Not to mention the fact that she got EVERY man on stage

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Here is a video of Jenne dancing the Morning of Day3

We walked a couple miles and then arrived at the first cheering station! My Mom, Dad, Aunt Tandy, Ryan, Chris S., Chandler, Chris D. and Mrs. McIver were all there! It was an early morning for them so I was so thankful and excited to see each and everyone of them! They had a full breakfast spread and awesome signs! Mrs. McIver made a HUGE sign that read "Rah Rah To The TaTa's" and my Mom had her sign too! The boys brought us balloons and my Aunt Tandy made me some super cute wings to wear.

My Mom and Aunt Tandy at the first cheer station on Day 3!

My sweet boyfriend! The best cheerleader!

Me with Ryan and Mrs.McIver

Chris, Ryan, Me and Chandler. Chris is Ryan's roomate and Chandler is his girlfriend.

Cheerleaders!!!

The AWESOME sign Mrs. McIver made! Thank you so much!!!

The pretty wings my Aunt Tandy made me for Day 3! I loved them and so did all the little girls I passed! One little girl was wearing wings too and she stopped me and said " I am an angel and you are too!" It was cute!

After the support of the first cheer station, I was ready to tackle the rest of the walk! On Day 3 Jessica and I walked at a slower pace than the rest of our team. Jess had a hurt ankle and I had a blister UNDER my toenail...no speed walking for us. Jess and I made it to Buckhead and decided to take a sweep van to the next pit stop. That sweep van was the best decision we made...it cut off about 2 miles from our walk and we were able to rest our feet for a little while. We ended up meeting up with Janice and Sadie at that pit stop and walked with them the rest of the day.

Jess and I at a church pumpkin patch

This was a pit stop at Oglethorpe University...such a beautiful site!

Jess and I with the balloons the boys gave us. :) Those balloons made it so much easier for us to find each other!

We made it to Buckhead!

This lady was handing out bloody mary shots!

During the last 5 miles of the walk I was really starting to feel it. Each step hurt but each step was worth it. I was pretty quite the last few miles,I was in my own world thinking and praying about why I was walking. The last mile I became very emotional...I could not hold back the tears. I couldn't help but think that with the completion of this walk, we are THAT much closer to a cure. We are THAT much closer to giving everyone the lifetime they deserve. I walked for you, for me, for the tatas that have been lost before this walk and for the tatas that will be saved! Breast Cancer has affected one too many people in my family and I'm willing to walk every year until there is cure, to make sure NO ONE else in my family will ever have to undergo what those before us did!

We are getting closer to Turner Field!

This was on the side of one of the building in downtown Atlanta

Sassy Sadie!

So CLOSE!!! No giving up yet!

Dancing at the cross walk!

The support of everyone was amazing!

Kat's Courage Double Bubble Breast Cancer Bus

Finally at Turner Field!

Mrs. Mihalak was the first person I saw when we walked into Turner Field. Mrs. Mihalak and my Dad grew up together and her daughter, Melissa and I did as well. I had not seen Mrs. Mihalak in years! Once I saw her, big crocodile tears were flowing down my face! Her Mother is a breast cancer survivor.

Then I saw my sweet Memaw and Dad. My Memaw is a breast cancer survivor and I walked in honor of her!

Here are all the 3-day participants in the holding area before the closing ceremony starts.

The cute 3Day shirts the gave us after the walk.

The TaTa Sisterhood team!

The Fabulous Four! Janice, Sadie, Jess and I walked together everyday! I could not have made it without them!

Closing Ceremony is about to begin!

Shoe off to the survivors...a very emotional moment.

The best picture I could get of the stage.

Survivors circle

Survivors!

Bella was at closing ceremony! :)

Ryan and I

What a precious family they are!!! Love yall!

The 2009 Breast Cancer 3-Day walk is the best thing I have ever been a part of. This walk opened my eyes in so many ways... I was so inspired. to start off the dance party! :)I will be walking in the Breast Cancer 3-Day in 2010!!! Who is with me???

Breast Cancer 3-Day Walk: DAY 2

2009-10-29T12:30:00.001-07:00

Day 2 we were awoken by whispers, phone alarms, tent zippers and the shuffling of feet. We rubbed our sleepy eyes, got dressed and grabbed some breakfast. After breakfast we stood in line to load the buses, while waiting in line we danced to Michael Jackson's "P.Y.T" and Miley Cyrus' " Party In The USA"...so much fun!

Lines to get on the buses

Grabbed a picture while waiting in line. "Everyone Deserves A Lifetime!"
We started our walk on Day 2 somewhere around Duluth. On Day 2 I was taking it 2 miles at a time. Every 2-3 mile there was a pit stop. If I thought about it this way then I was fine! At each pit stop they had PBJ's, oranges, chips, peanuts, bananas, powerade and water. They also had medical tents and port-a-potty's galore! At every pit stop I grabbed a couple orange slices and it was heaven to my mouth! At one of the pit stops they had some cheerleaders from a local high school and I recognized one of the cheerleaders...she was an employee at one of my favorite stores Charming Charlie. After one of their cheers I grabbed her to get a kick line picture!

mmm oranges!

Thank God for port-a-pottys!!!

woo kick line with the cheerleaders! This killed my hamstrings! haha

My favorite part of the 3-Day beside all the inspirational stories and the possibilities of finding a cure? THE CREW MEMBERS! Crew is fabulous! They have the best costumes and music! The crew members rode around on motorcycles and bicycles with music blaring. They were dancing at every crosswalk and rooting us on. Without crew it would have been one boring walk!

This was my favorite crew member. I forget his name but everyday he had a different kilt. He was a dancing machine!!!

We were all told by the crew members to give the cop a hug as we crossed the street. It was soo funny to see him be bombarded!

We crossed the Chattahoochee River

Stretch it out! Stretching is sooo important!

Here we are at the end of Day-2! "Live will be spared because we cared!"

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At the end of Day 2 we walked into camp and waited in line to get a massage! YES, a MASSAGE! Energizer is one of the Breast Cancer 3-Day sponsors and they had a tent for massages. It was fabulous! After the massage we ate a late dinner and joined in on the night fun! Missy came to be with us that night and I was so happy to see her! She brought us cappuccinos, coffee and doughnuts...now that's a sweet friend! The night was kicked off with karaoke and followed by an awesome dance party! First all the men were called to the stage....they weren't sure why they were called up there but later found out it was to start off the dance party! All of the men were good sports and shaked what their mama's game 'em! They played all the good music...single ladies, cupid shuffle, YMCA, pretty much anything you could shake your hips too. It was a GREAT time and it actually made me feel like a million bucks! All the dancing really loosened all my muscles stiffness!

Dance party begins!

Missy and I doing the Cupid's Shuffle

Sadie and Janice shaking it!

"YMCA"

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Single Ladies! This was soo much fun!

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Cupid's shuffle! Look at Sadie, Janice and Missy getting down!!!

Breast Cancer 3-Day Walk: Bernie

2009-10-29T12:06:00.000-07:00

I forgot to tell you on my Day 1 post that I met an amazing person...his name is Bernie. I met Bernie with only a mile left to the bus when he made the comment that we were almost done! I noticed that Bernie was walking alone so I asked if he was walking with a team and he told me "no, I am walking alone". I asked if he was from Atlanta and found out that he was actually an out-of-towner...he is from Boston! After we talked about him being from Boston I asked why he walked. He walks in Memory of his wife, Mary. Mary battled breast cancer for many years and eventually lost her battle. Since she has passed away Bernie has walked in 5 3-Day's all in different cities. After the Atlanta 3-Day he has walked a total of 300 miles for his one true love. He was sporting the pink like a real man and told his story with so much joy. Bernie is a true example of what the 3-Day is all about. I feel so blessed to have met Bernie on this journey. His smile was contagious, his story was inspiring and his positive attitude was uplifting. God placed Bernie in my path for a reason! Each day I ran into Bernie at least once... on Day 2 I saw Bernie dancing on stage at the dance party and then later ran into him that night. On Day 3 I saw Bernie as I walked into closing ceremony. I got it all on video and wasn't planning on it but I am SO glad that I did. Here are a couple videos to enjoy....

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This is Bernie shaking it with all the men on stage. So fun!

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Here we are walking into closing ceremony and I see Bernie! woo hoo

Breast Cancer 3-Day Walk: DAY 1

2009-10-28T11:41:00.000-07:00

What do you do before a 60 mile walk? You fill up on carbs! The TaTa Sisterhood headed to Provinos on Thursday night for our "last supper" before our 60 mile walk. We all ate more then our bellies could handle but it was so worth it! That night some of the team members spent the night at my Mother's house in Dacula. We did not go to bed until 12 and had to be up at 4:30 am! We woke up just as excited as we would be for Christmas day. We raced around the house making sure we had every last thing packed and perfected our outfits and hair. Before we left we prepped our feet with Vaseline, body glide and the perfect socks. We were ready to go!!!

The 2009 Atlanta Breast Cancer 3-Day began with an inspiring Opening Ceremony at Lake Lanier Islands Resort. Despite some expected rain during the day, we were all raring to go! When we pulled up to the resort we loaded our bags on to the appropriate truck and headed in to Opening Ceremony. We walked in to the beat of some fabulous music and were in awe of all the pink. Before the Ceremony started we picked up our Energizer Bunny ears, filled our CamelBak's to the rim with water and hit the dreaded port-a-potty's. Next we were all told to gather around the stage as the Ceremony would soon be starting. The ceremony was very emotional and moving...it really made me refocus on why I was doing this walk. Jenne Fromm the national spokes person for the 3-day gave an incredible and emotional speech. At the end of her speech, they had breast cancer survivors carry flags that said things like " Joy, Love, Optimism, Healing" etc. to the center of the Ceremony. Once they got to the center they placed their flags in holders and joined hands. This moment had the most impact on me because I instantly thought of everyone I was walking in honor and memory of and realized that by doing this walk we are becoming THAT much closer to a cure!

Closing Ceremony came to an end and the music was blaring once again! We danced our way out of the ceremony to the streets of the Lake Lanier Island Resort. Our journey begins and we were ready to face the sore feet, muscle aches, tears and laughter that all came with it!

Here is Jessica and I crossing over Lake Lanier.

Throughout the walk these flags were carried by walkers and then passed back to other walkers. We carried the "Joy" flag for a mile or so. Joy is so appropriate for the TaTa Sisterhood!

Jess stretching it out at the first cheer station of the day.

The TaTa Sisterhood (minus Allison, Lari, Missy and Mary Ellen) at the first cheer station in Buford.

My sweet Mom and best friend, Natalie came to the first cheer station on Day 1!

Best Friends!

The TaTa Sisterhood! Lookin' good ladies!

With shirts like this, dancing, singing and doing pretty much anything to make us laugh, Crew members made it so easy to keep walking!

Sugar Hill Elementary cheered us on as we walked by. They were ADORABLE!!!

Once our 20 mile journey of Day 1 was over we hopped on a bus and were taken to our camp site. Camp was moved indoors at the North Atlanta Trade Center due to the rain and soiled grounds. First thing we did as we got off the bus was find our bag and grab a pink tent. We picked our spot and set up our tent and then headed to the truck showers. Truck showers? I know right? Well, they were fabulous! Hot water all night!!! After a shower and pajamas we headed to dinner. Dinner on the first night was spaghetti and meatballs, green beans, salad, garlic bread and a huge brownie! YUM! Oh, and they had sodas...after water and powerade all day I was about to die for some caffeine and thank goodness they provided that! On night 1 we were party poopers after only 4 hours of sleep the night before so we just hung out at our tent instead of joining in on karaoke.

Setting up the tents!

Home for the next 3 days!

Posts for Day 2 & 3 coming soon...

The Thomas Wedding

2009-10-21T10:23:00.000-07:00

On October 10, 2009 Ashley Wilkes and Dustin Thomas got married at the Georgia Club. It was a beautiful wedding and once again Ryan was a groomsmen. We had such a fun time at the reception, it was almost like a mini Central reunion with all the Central High School alumni. The food, DJ and company were all great!

During the reception it came time for the garter and bouquet toss. They played "single ladies" and called all the single ladies to the floor, of course I marched right on up there! There had to have been about 15-20 girls up there with me. Ashley grabbed her bouquet and threw it back and I caught it! As soon as I caught it Toni grabbed on too and started pulling it from my hand. As she was pulling, the flowers were going every where and at that point I gave up the fight, let go and let her have it! Then it was time for the garter toss. Ashley's garter was a GA Tech garter ( boo). While the boys were gathering on the floor, Toni came up to me and said she thought we both should go up there after the garter was caught and BOTH sit on the chair...I was all about it considering I caught it and she just put up the fight for it! ;) So, Dustin took the garter off of Ashley's leg while all the boys (about 20 of them) rounded up on the floor. Dustin threw the garter and guess who caught it??? RYAN! The boys went crazy...you would have thought he scored the winning point for a game! They were screaming and shoving. It was too funny!

After the garter was tossed Toni and I headed to the floor and shared the chair ( I sat in her lap). Ryan walked up with the garter and we told him he had to put the garter on BOTH of our legs! Right after we told him that Dustin got on the DJ's mic and said " Ryan, when you put that garter on you have to say to hell with Georgia"...Ryan was not to happy about this considering he is a UGA fan! So, Ryan gets on one knee and proceeds to put the garter on but only puts it on Toni's leg. I was so confused and thought maybe he didn't hear us when we said to put it on BOTH of our legs. So I stand up and am thinking "what the heck?". Ryan heads to the DJ stand and grabs the mic and says " No wife of mine will ever be a GA Tech fan". Now I was no longer thinking "what the heck?" but I was smiling so big and ran over to him! Geez what a romantic boyfriend I have! :) After a huge hug we danced the night away.

Toni & I with the bouquet...split in half!

The garter toss!

Ryan caught it!

The boys getting rowdy after Ryan caught the garter

Ryan sporting the Tech garter

Toni and I being announced to the floor

Sharing the glory! haha

This is right after we told him to put the garter on both of our legs

This is my "what the heck?" after he only placed it on Toni's leg

Dancing after Ryan made his comment " no wife of mine will ever be a GA Tech fan!"

I thought this was a cute little story that I would share. You know what they say...if you catch it, you are next! ;)

Some more pictures to enjoy...

My one true love!

Jessica & I

Jessica and her husband, Chris

Billy and Ryan

Tyler, Ryan and Alan

Us! :)

The newlyweds! Congratulations Ashley & Dustin!!!

Bella Turns 2

2009-10-14T12:47:00.000-07:00

Last Sunday was Bella's 2nd Birthday! We could not make it to Bella's Birthday party on Saturday so Ryan and I went to visit on Sunday! First we met Katie and Bella at Toys R Us and let Bella pick out her present. It was so fun watching her walk around and point out things and play with stuff. We weren't sure what to get her so Katie helped us out...she said that a train set might be a good idea. She was right (of course, Mom knows best) it was! Once we got over to the train section they had a little table set up with train tracks and a bunch of trains...Bella played with it for a while and loved it! So, Ryan and I bought Bella her first train set!

After Toys R Us, Ryan, Bella, Katie, Chris and I all went to Willy's for dinner! After dinner Ryan and I had the privilege of watching Bella for a couple hours while Katie and Chris went to small group. As soon as we got home we set up Bella's train and she played with it for a while. Then she brought us back to her room to show us all of her babies. We also looked at her books and I played a random tune on the piano while her and Ryan danced. Bella even let me braid her hair! We had such a great time with her while we were there. She is so smart and so much fun!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BELLA!!!

The Scrapbook

2009-10-12T09:22:00.000-07:00

For those that are curious... here is the scrapbook that I gave to Ryan!

"hoo loves ya baby?" I fell in love with these owls at the scrapbook store and had to do something with them!

This page tells the story of how we met and also has dates for our firsts. First kiss, first time to church together, first Christmas etc.

The Shirah wedding...where it all started! What a fun night!

Amicalola Falls camping trip with the Shirah's

First concert together... Coldplay. FUN!

Well's Real Estate trip to Amelia Island. Where we fell in love!

My first golf outing at Ameila Island with Ryan.

Our first Christmas. Ryan bought me the movie P.S. I love You

Christmas party!

We only saw 4 movies in our entire first year! I love movies too...

Snowboarding trip...another first for me. This was the trip where Ryan got his concussion! ouch

Of course a page had to be dedicated to Ryan's dog, Lola!

Our first Easter

We went to a few Braves games this season. So much fun!

Goooo Dawgs!!! We got spoiled one game with the Well's Real Estate box seats! Nice!

Bonnaroo! This was such an awesome trip! Endless music all day and camping!

Bonnaroo!

The next two pages are just random outings with friends and family.

Let the good times roll!

Cape San Blas with the entire McIver clan!

what a fabulous trip!

"12 Reasons I Love You"

Last page. "It's Always Better When We're Together!"

I hope Ryan will forever cherish this book. Right now it is sitting on his night stand! :) Can't wait to start on the next book! I love scrapbooking but I love scrapbooking about my sweet love more than anything!

Anniversary Presents

2009-10-12T09:02:00.000-07:00

Ryan & I decided to exchange gifts for our anniversary and boy did he spoil me!

Saturday morning I woke up to find a gift card to Charming Charlie. Charming Charlie is one of my new favorite stores and Ryan remembered it! Ryan left the gift card with a note that said "Good Morning! Only a few more hours until Sugarland and one more day until our one year! Right down here you will find a little treat- go splurge on something to wear for tonight or tomorrow! You deserve it plus so much more! I love you! See you tonight!" How sweet is that? What a wonderful surprise!

After shopping at Charming Charlie I met Ryan at his apartment to head to the concert! I had a surprise for him...I made him a "sweet" note.

After giving Ryan his sweet note we decided that before we left for the concert, we would exchange gifts! We couldn't wait until Sunday! haha I bought Ryan a new UGA shirt and a tie. I also gave him the completed scrapbook of our entire first year!

Ryan bought be a set of monogrammed Tervis Tumbler glasses and a new computer chair! My computer chair absolutely kills my back everyday at work so this was such a thoughtful gift!

We both loved our presents to each other! They all have been put to great use! Ryan wore his new tie to work that following Monday and wore his UGA shirt to the game the next Saturday. I get to sit in that comfy chair all day at work and I drink out of my cups everyday! I haven't used another one since he bought those for me! haha

Anniversary Weekend

2009-10-12T08:27:00.000-07:00

This post is a little late...

September 27, 2009 marked the one year anniversary for Ryan and I! I can't believe it has only been a year...it feels like we have been together much longer! I guess that's what love will do to you!

To celebrate our Anniversary we did several fun things! We went to the Sugarland concert, Ray's On The River and Spa Sydell!

Saturday night we went the Sugarland concert at the Verizon amphitheater. Sugarland is one of my favorite bands so I was overly excited to be going! Despite the rain and wet grounds we had so much fun! We danced and sang the night away. While we were there we met up with my friend Kris and some of her friends so that made it even more fun!

Sunday morning we had brunch at Ray's On The River. Our original plan was to go back to our first date spot, Canoe but it was completely flooded and closed for business! So instead we went to Ray's On The River and it was delicious! Our table was right by a huge window that overlooked the river and pretty landscape in the back. Ryan and I went up the buffet 3 times! There was just too much food to choose from...they had an omelet station, every type of breakfast food, fish, pastas, and an entire room with nothing but desserts! yummmmy! After brunch we went on a short walk by the river before heading back for our massage!

After brunch we came back to Ryan's apartment to hang out and before we knew it, it was time for our couples massage! This was only my second massage and this was Ryan's first! I thought this would be the perfect way for us to completely unwind and forget about everything else going on in our lives! We went to Spa Sydell and overall had a great experience! The massage was fabulous. Ryan really enjoyed it and that made me happy!

We had a great anniversary weekend! We talked about where we were one year ago and where we see our relationship going. I love Ryan with every ounce of my being. I have never loved another the way I do him. He makes me so happy!!!

Check the next post for anniversary presents...

TaTa to BREAST CANCER!

2009-09-28T10:28:00.000-07:00

In just 25 days I will take on an incredible challenge. On October 23rd-25th , I'll be walking 60 miles over the course of three days, camping out at night with thousands of other women and men taking this journey with me...

I will be walking in The Breast Cancer 3-Day, which benefits Susan G. Komen for the Cure and the National Philanthropic Trust Breast Cancer Fund. Every advancement in breast cancer research, treatment, education and prevention in the last 25 years has been touched by a Komen for the Cure grant. They are working hard to build a future without breast cancer, and I along with so many others pledged to raise $2,300 in order to bring us closer to that goal. Today I am just $182 away from my goal! My team "The TaTa Siserhood" is just 21% away from reaching our goal as a group!

"This is our promise...a world without breast cancer"

With each step I take, I will keep those I am walking in honor and in memory of in my heart, on my mind and on my shirt ( I designed t-shirts for our group to wear that has our honorees names listed on the back). I am walking for these ladies, for the TaTa's that have already gone and for the TaTa's that will be saved! Below is a list of the people I am walking in honor of and in memory of...

I am walking in Memory of: Azzie Leigh Styers- My Great Grandmother
I am walking in Honor of:
Delores Gouge- Grandmother
Jennifer Swanger- Aunt
Virginia Reichert- Ryan's Grandmother
Mary Noland- Close Family Friend
Marsha Jordan- Jessica & Missy's Mother
Oletha Springer- Jessica & Missy's Grandmother
Jane Kamler- Natalie's Mother

Has anyone if your family been affected by breast cancer?

Show Us Your Life- Dessert Recipes

2009-09-25T07:40:00.000-07:00

Dessert Recipes: OREO BALLS

Oreo Balls are my all time favorite treat!!! They are also a great treat to bring to parties or give as little Christmas gift. Last Christmas I made a bunch of Oreo Balls and brought them to The McIver Christmas gathering. They are so easy and usually everyone loves them! Again, I am not prepared and have zero pictures! Sorry!

OREO BALLS
1 package of Oreos
1 package of 8 oz Cream Cheese softened
1 package of Almond Bark ( you can find this with your chocolate chip morsels. For those who do not know this is just like a big block of white chocolate)

First you need to crush your Oreos...I found the best way to do this is to put 4 at a time in a blender and grind them up. It really crushes the Oreos and eliminates all chunks...the finer the Oreos are crushed up the better! Save a few crumbs for later!

Take your crushed Oreos and mix with your Cream Cheese. This can be pretty tricky with a spoon so I usually use my (clean) hands! Yes you have tons of Oreo mixture all between your fingers but once it is mixed well it is fine!

Take your mixture and roll into 1inch balls. Insert a tooth pick and place on a baking sheet. Once all your Oreo Balls are formed put in the freezer for a couple minutes...this helps hold the tooth pick in and makes it easier to dip in your chocolate.

After about 5-10 minutes take your Oreo Balls out of the freezer and dip into your melted Almond Bark. Follow packaging instructions when melting your Almond Bark. Once you have dipped your Oreo Balls place them back on the baking sheet that has been lined with wax paper! Before your chocolate hardens...sprinkle the top with your extra Oreo crumbs or colorful sprinkles. For Christmas I used red and green sprinkles and I thought it was so cute!

Again, these are so yummy! They almost taste as if you have dipped a regular Oreo in milk! The inside is so moist! Hope you enjoy!!! :)

** For all that are loving these recipes...all of these will be in The TaTa Sisterhood Cookbook. This cookbook will be $15- a % of the proceeds will go towards my fundraising for the Breast Cancer 3-Day walk!!! The cookbook will include tons of fabulous recipes from each walker on my Breast Cancer 3-Day team and it will also include the personal stories of those we are walking in honor of! If you would like to purchase one, let me know! I will be getting these cookbooks at the beginning of next month!**

I Have To Do WHAT?!

2009-09-22T13:44:00.000-07:00

Last week I went to the doctor for several reasons...1.) because I have been feeling very dehydrated 2.) I have been feeling very tired and fatigued AND 3.) I have had at least 3-4 headaches a week! All of these symptoms have had me feeling pretty blue the last month or so. I would much rather lay around all day then do anything!

So first things first, the nurse weighed me in, took my temp and blood pressure...all this looked good so they sent the doctor in. Dr. Latoni asked me several questions about my diet and daily routine and then did a few tests to check my circulation and reflexes...these all seemed normal to him. After talking a little further, Dr. Latoni decided to do blood work. He tested my Thyroid, Vitamin B12 level and my Hemoglobin level ( to see if I was diabetic). The next day I got my results back and my thyroid was normal and I was not diabetic BUT I had a B12 deficiency. Since I had a B12 deficiency I was told I need to make another appointment to see Dr. Latoni as soon as possible.

Today I went back to the doctor and we reviewed all of my blood work results including my B12 levels. During a B12 blood test your results should come back between 500-1100 pg/mL to read normal...mine came back at 228!!! Dr. Latoni said that a few of the main symptoms of a B12 deficiency is lack of energy, tingling/numbing sensation in hands & feet and headaches. I had everyone of these symptoms! My toes will tingle and go numb when I walk for a long distance in tennis shoes...I always thought this was because maybe my shoes were too narrow or too tight, NOPE! I was completely confused as to how my B12 level could be so low...I mean I eat meat with almost every meal and that is where you get the main source of B12!

So what do you do if you have a B12 deficiency? You have to receive B12 injections! Today I received my first one from a nurse but for the next 8 weeks I will have to give them to myself. After 8 weeks I have to see my doctor again and get my blood work re-done to test these levels. My doctor said that if it is still showing a low count then I be tested for pernicious anemia. If you have pernicious anemia your body is unable to absorb a sufficient amount of vitamin B12 from dietary food sources and therefore require injections of B12 to aid absorption. A lack of B12 can also lead to failures in your nervous system.

So, today was injection one and I still have 8 weeks to go! Dr. Latoni said if this works, by shot 3 I will feel a huge difference in my energy level! Hallelujah! I am ready to have my energy back and just in time for the Breast Cancer 3-Day Walk!

2009-09-18T10:07:00.000-07:00

Show Us Your Life- Dinner Recipes

Today I am participating in my first " Show Us Your Life" from Kelly's Korner Blog. I am so excited about this "Show Us Your Life" because I LOVE to cook and LOVE to find new recipes so, this is perfect! Today I am sharing my Mom's homemade chicken & dumpling recipe. This is by far one of my favorite recipes that has been handed down to me.

Homemade Chicken & Dumplings

4 chicken breast

4 cups of self rising flour

1/2 cup of milk

1 stick of butter

lemon pepper seasoning

Add chicken into a large boiling pot of water. Make sure your water covers all of your chicken. Boil chicken for about 40 mins or until chicken is cooked all the way through. Once chicken is cooked, remove the chicken from the water and add a stick of butter ( this is creating your broth). While your broth is being cooked go ahead and start your dumplings... Mix about 4 cups of flour and one cup of your broth into a bowl. If the mixture is too runny or sticky add more flour. Make an area to create your dumplings by sprinkling some flour onto the counter. Get your dumpling mixture from the bowl and roll it out on the counter...I usually keep my dumplings at about 1/2 an inch thick. Once you have rolled out your dough, cut them into squares and add them to the big pot of chicken broth. Add a 1/2 cup of milk to your pot of broth and dumplings. While your dumplings are cooking you, go ahead and pull apart your chicken and shred it. Add your shredded chicken to the big pot. Add in your lemon pepper seasoning about 12-15 "shakes"... I add the lemon pepper seasoning to taste ( usually a lot!) but you can add however much or little you like. The lemon pepper definitely makes the flavor!

When I eat Chicken & Dumpling I usually served it with pinto beans. Something about those two go so good together! ENJOY!

**Sorry I do not have any pictures...I was not prepared! But trust me it looks as good as it tastes! ;)

What's not to love about Fall?

2009-09-01T14:36:00.000-07:00

Fall is my absolute favorite season. Here are a few reasons why...

-The weather is ideal. Not too hot, not too cold. You wake up every morning to crisp, fresh, chilled air! This kind of weather is perfect for riding in the car with your windows down playing your music as loud as you can stand it!

- I love the colors of fall! The leaves changing colors is so beautiful. I love taking a spontaneous car ride just to drive around to see the beautiful scenery our God has created!- I like everything about carving a pumpkin. I like picking it out, scraping all the seeds out, picking out a design etc. I also love to bake the pumpkin seeds...so yummy!

- Speaking of pumpkins. Starbucks has a Pumpkin Spice Latte that is my absolute favorite drink from there! They reintroduce the drink in the fall! Goodness, I can't wait to get my hands on one of those!-Fall means Football! UGA football to be exact! I love spending time watching the dawgs play with my closet friends and family. Always a good time!
- The fair! I love going to the fair! The only reason I really enjoy it is because of all the food! I love the fried pickles, shaved potatoes, chocolate covered banana on a stick, cotton candy, turkey legs... HAHA Last year when I went to the fair with The Jacobs family, I literally ate 4 of the things I just listed! I did not regret it ONE BIT! mmm The only thing I do not like about the fair is all the germs! I am little weird about germs, I am the girl that uses the clorox wipes to wipe down the grocery cart. I am also the girl that sanitized my hands after EVERY ride.

- Fall weather is perfect for camping! Camping comes with cuddling by the fire. Smores! Perfect scenery! I love it and hope to go several times this fall!
-Bring out the hoodies, sweat pants, long sleeve t-shirts...all the comfy clothes! If I had to choose one outfit to wear for the rest of my life it would be sweat pants, a hoodie and UGGS. So comfy!

- My NEW favorite thing about fall is the anniversary for Ryan & I! September 27th is when it all started! I can't wait to celebrate a very special day with my sweet love during my favorite season!!!- My all time favorite thing about fall is THANKSGIVING! I love spending time with my entire family. I love all the yummy food! And I loved taking the time to step back and realize how blessed I really am...I often forget and this Holiday always is a reminder!

Patio Rice Recipe

2009-08-20T11:16:00.000-07:00

Patio Rice is one of my favorite recipes! This recipes has been floating around on my Mom's side of the family before I was born. Patio Rice has become a staple item for Thanksgiving & Christmas dinners. It is such a good side to have with chicken, steak or any kind of meat! Yumm!

I made this with our shish-ka-bobs when were in Cape San Blas. Most everyone liked it just as much as I do... so I thought I would post the recipe here!

Patio Rice- serves 4

INGREDIENTS
1 cup rice
1 small onion ( I use Vidalia onions)
½ stick of butter
1 cup water
1 can mushroom soup
1 can beef consommé

Pre-heat your oven to 300 degrees. Put butter, rice and chopped onions in pan and brown. Add water, mushroom soup and beef consommé to the browned rice & onions. Stir. Transfer mixture to a baking dish and bake in the oven for 1 hour. Keep an eye on your rice around 40 minutes, depending on your oven it may be done...the rice should be brown and kinda of bubbling on top.
Hope you enjoy this recipe as much as I do!

Scrapbooking Heaven

2009-08-19T12:55:00.000-07:00

Saturday Ryan & I went to lake Hartwell with Trent & Katie Lewis to Trent's parents lake house. Little did I know that on this weekend get-a-way I would find my match, my I-love-scrapbooking-just-as-much-as-you ( if not more) match! Mrs. Lewis is the ultimate scrapbooker and I instantly was pulled to her ideas! I found out she was a scrapbooker after I flipped through a recipe scrapbook laying on her kitchen counter. After I asked her about it and told her I loved to scrapbook she said " a girl after my own heart" and showed me to her scrapbooking room.

Her scrapbooking room is exactly what I need! It is complete with every color paper you could want, all kinds of glues and embellishments, pretty much anything you need to scrapbook she has it! The best part of her scrapbooking room was she had a Pazzle.
This is a Pazzle. For those of you that don't know, a Pazzle is a professional computerized paper cutting system that uses your home computer. You can cut custom shapes, images, and words out of cardstock, vellum, chipboard, vinyl and more! The first thing you do is pick you word or image from the program, then pick your favorite pen ( Sharpie, ball point pen, paint pen, whatever) and put it in the machine. After you do that the machine then draws your image on whatever size paper ( up to 12X12). After it draws it you take the pen out, put the cutter in, set your cutting diameters and then it cuts your image or word out. IT IS SO COOL AND SUCH A MONEY SAVER! I cant tell you how much money I spend on font and themed stickers! I would go out and buy a Pazzle tomorrow if I could but they are about $500! I will just have to save up for one.

Sunday at the lake Katie, Mrs. Lewis and I spent all day in her scrapbooking room making volleyball good luck signs for Katie's players. I had so much fun learning how to use the Pazzle and looking through all Mrs. Lewis's scrapbooks ( I got some good ideas from them ). Throughout the day Mrs. Lewis told me several times that I must come over and scrapbook with her at her house in Dacula...yes she has 2 scrapbook rooms! I might just take her up on that offer!

I found another scrapbook lover and it makes me so happy!

Top 10 Cape San Blas Memories

2009-08-19T07:49:00.000-07:00

The first week of August I went on a full week vacation with the entire McIver family to Cape San Blas. It was seriously the most relaxing trip I have ever been on! A big thanks to Mr. & Mrs. McIver!

The best way for me to sum up my trip is by 10 ( I could do 20) sweet memories...

10. Pure relaxation- The entire trip was so relaxing and carefree I almost didn't know what to do with my self. We did not have a schedule or plan...we simply lived in the moment.

9. Shopping- On a rainy day, Chelsie, Sarah, Ryan & I headed to town to go in a few shops. I LOVE small town shops...they always have unique gifts. When we went shopping, we had lunch a little deli and just chatted away. Very FUN!

8. Game time- A couple nights we gathered around the table and play cards. One night I introduced a game called "31"...it was a fun but long game. Everyone was a good sport about baring with Ryan & I to explain rules. Another night a few of us played UNO, we played a different variation of but I forget the name...needless to say it was fun too! Another game we play was ladder ball.Ladder ball is so much fun and a great game to bring down to the beach! Ryan's Grandmother & Dad were both really good at the game!

7. Cooking- Before we left for vacation Ryan & I decided we were going to make dinner for everyone while we were there. We made 3 different meals- stuffed shells, chicken & steak kabobs with grilled corn and patio rice, and we had a Mexican night with quesadillas, tacos and black beans. A lot of these meals turned into more than just Ryan & I cooking which made it all the more fun! Something about cooking for others is so much fun to me!

6. Midnight Mission- One night Mrs. McIver, Chelsie, Sarah, Ryan and myself had a Midnight Mission. The mission was to pick up a broken tent off the side of the road, throw it in the truck and bring it back to obtain all the parts we needed to fix OUR broken tent! You see- the one day we all decide to leave our tents on the beach a huge storm came in and wiped out our tents. We were determined to fix them with duct tape and extra parts...we were successful!

5. Bonfires- Cape San Blas allows you to create fires on the beach and we took advantage of it! We had 2 bonfire nights complete with story telling and smores! Chelsie's story telling had everyone laughing- I loved it!

4. Pictures- I'm sure you all know I have a slight obsession with pictures. I just think they are the best way to capture a memory. BUT the best part of this trip was that we have a photographer in our group...Chris- he is pretty close to an expert. We took advantage of his skills and camera! We had group pictures on the bay. The pictures turned out so good! Another night Chris, Katie, Ryan & I went to dinner and after Chris took a few pics. During dinner I picked his brain and he gave me a mini lesson and let me shoot some pics of him & Katie! I long for the day where I have a camera as nice as his and skill level like him too!

3. Bella- a couple mornings Mrs. McIver brought Bella to wake us up. It was so cute and completely melted my heart. Mrs. McIver would carry her in and stand by our beds and she would just stare at us and give us a smile. That little girl has everyone wrapped around her finger, including me. I would drop anything to play with her...she is precious!

2. Meeting Ryan's Grandmother- On the trip down to Cape San Blas we made a stop in Wewahitchka, FL to see Mr.McIver's mother & father. This was my first time meeting them and I was so excited! They had pictures everywhere in their house of the entire family from their childhood...it was so fun looking at all the old pictures! Ryan's Grandmother's health is not very good right now so it was kinda tough on the family to see her that way. I was just glad I got to meet her and see the love that they all have for her. She is a special lady. Ryan's Grandfather is a hoot. His nickname for Ryan was "Royal Ryan". He was full of stories and had such a good attitude despite his wife's health. His love definitely shined through.

1. Bonding- My favorite thing about the entire trip was the fact that I got to bond and get to know each person in Ryan's family a little better. They have such a loving and welcoming family. I love each of them very much and thank God they have been placed in my life!

Ready, Set, BLOG!

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Here you will find posts about my favorite things, crafts I am doing, my favorite recipes, events and weekend activities going on and posts about my sweet love, Ryan. I am so excited to finally start my own blog. For a while now I have been a avid blog reader of people I know and people I don't. I love to get craft, decor ideas and recipes from others blogs. Mainly this blog is for me to store memories and ideas. Enjoy!